Begin with the problem, not the hardware. Weak coverage in some rooms points to placement and backhaul guides; laggy video calls while others stream point to bufferbloat and queue management; smart-home clutter points to VLANs and guest networks. Read the guide that matches your symptom first, because some of these fixes need no new router.

If you do plan to replace or add a router, read the guides on replacing the ISP router and avoiding double NAT before buying, so you know what your provider's equipment must keep doing. Then decide whether an OpenWrt-based router is worth the extra setup for you, and use the model reviews, comparisons and alternatives pages to narrow the short list.

Advanced features come last: whole-home VPN, VPN policy routing, encrypted DNS and network-wide ad blocking. Each adds settings to maintain, so turn them on one at a time and confirm the basics still work after each change.